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Some people make you feel comfortable when they are around. These people have something in common. And once we know what it is we can try to do it ourselves. How is it done Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills, they’ll help you put people at their ease, and make friends with them quickly. First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go. Second, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. And to find out what sort of person you are talking to, you really have to listen carefully and attentively. Real listening at least means some things. First it means not to change the subject of the conversation. Real listening also means not just listening to words but to tones of voice. If the voice sounds dull, then, it’s time for you to change the subject. Finally, good talkers know well now to deal with the occasion of parting. If you want to see that person again, don’t keep it a secret. Let people know what you feel, and they may walk away feeling as if they’ve known you half their life. Generally speaking, good talkers are persons who ______.
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After the birth of my second child, I got a job at a restaurant. Having worked with an experienced (36) for a few days, I was (37) to wait tables on my own. All went (38) that first week. When Saturday night came, I was luckily (39) the tables not far from the kitchen. (40) , I still felt it a little hard to carry the heavy trays (托盘).Before I knew it, the (41) was full of people. I moved slowly, (42) every step. I remember how (43) I was when I saw the tray stand near the tables. It looked different from the one I was (44) on. It had nice handles, which made it (45) to move around. I was (46) with everything and began to (47) I was a natural at this job.Then an old man came to me and (48) , "Excuse me, dear, my wife and I loved (49) you work. It seems your tray stand has been very (50) to you, but we are getting ready to (51) now, and my wife needs her (52) back."At first his (53) did not get across. Then, I got it. I had set my trays on his wife’s orthopedic walker (助听器). My face was (54) . I wanted to get into a hole and (55) . 51().
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After the birth of my second child, I got a job at a restaurant. Having worked with an experienced (36) for a few days, I was (37) to wait tables on my own. All went (38) that first week. When Saturday night came, I was luckily (39) the tables not far from the kitchen. (40) , I still felt it a little hard to carry the heavy trays (托盘).Before I knew it, the (41) was full of people. I moved slowly, (42) every step. I remember how (43) I was when I saw the tray stand near the tables. It looked different from the one I was (44) on. It had nice handles, which made it (45) to move around. I was (46) with everything and began to (47) I was a natural at this job.Then an old man came to me and (48) , "Excuse me, dear, my wife and I loved (49) you work. It seems your tray stand has been very (50) to you, but we are getting ready to (51) now, and my wife needs her (52) back."At first his (53) did not get across. Then, I got it. I had set my trays on his wife’s orthopedic walker (助听器). My face was (54) . I wanted to get into a hole and (55) . 53().
After the birth of my second child, I got a job at a restaurant. Having worked with an experienced (36) for a few days, I was (37) to wait tables on my own. All went (38) that first week. When Saturday night came, I was luckily (39) the tables not far from the kitchen. (40) , I still felt it a little hard to carry the heavy trays (托盘).Before I knew it, the (41) was full of people. I moved slowly, (42) every step. I remember how (43) I was when I saw the tray stand near the tables. It looked different from the one I was (44) on. It had nice handles, which made it (45) to move around. I was (46) with everything and began to (47) I was a natural at this job.Then an old man came to me and (48) , "Excuse me, dear, my wife and I loved (49) you work. It seems your tray stand has been very (50) to you, but we are getting ready to (51) now, and my wife needs her (52) back."At first his (53) did not get across. Then, I got it. I had set my trays on his wife’s orthopedic walker (助听器). My face was (54) . I wanted to get into a hole and (55) . 48().
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