For many, the ultimate deposit to the Emotional Bank Account comes in forgiving.When you forgive ,you open the channels (61) trust and unconditional love. You cleanse your heart. You also remove a major obstacle (62) keeps others from changing—because when you don’t (63) , you put yourself between people and their conscience. Instead (64) spending their energy on work with their own conscience, they (65) it defending and justifying their behaviour to you.In (66) you do for your family, keep in (67) the miracle of the Chinese bamboo. After the seed is (68) , new, taller shoots appear until the bamboo reaches full height. (69) the most dramatic growth is underground, where the (70) grow very strong. With this support, the bamboo can reach a height of 120 feet! 67()